A Human Being in the Research
I am not standing above you or ahead of you.
I am in the research with you.
My life had been carved by conditioning, centregiving, taking over responsibility for others, and under‑responsibility for myself- and the slow, fierce work of coming back to myself.
I didn’t make shifts through theory.
I made shifts through necessity.
The Life I Lived Before This Work
For years, I funnelled my life into being a “good person.”
I served the world around me with everything I had- and more than I had.
I was:
- an intensive care nurse
- a young mother of two boys
- a performance athlete
- a wife
- a foster‑care support person
- the first person in my family to start a business- a martial arts gym owner
And underneath all of that, I was becoming more and more sick- in ways no specialist in modern medicine could help me with.
My body was collapsing under the weight of roles, expectations, and survival strategies I didn’t yet know I was running.
I had to explore alternative possibilities.
That exploration brought my physical health back online.
Then my emotional body.
Then my energetic body.
Then my archetypal body.
And with that came the earthquaking realisation that centregivin- the strategy of handing my centre away- had been running my life, my relationships, my parenting, my career, My athlete life.
Once I saw it, I couldn’t unsee it.
What I Stand For
I stand for people discovering their own survival technology and their own process- not following mine.
What matters to me is:
- aliveness for life
- clarity
- responsibility
- Looking at the shadow so the light can shine brighter
- feeling as information
- presence not perfectionism
- creating from reality, not fantasy
You are not broken. You do not need fixing
What I Am Creating Now
I am raising boys into men with adventure, possibility, and a deep commitment to resourcing myself so I can stand for the initiation boys need to become men.
I am supporting & Training spaceholders to unfold their emerging Gameworlds.
I am discovering flow, pleasure, joy, abundance.
I am weaving community.
I am experimenting with living my life consciously creating what I want at the centre- Not orienting around money or what modern culture tells me.
How I Move
I am not rushing.
I am exploring.
I am distilling.
I am becoming.
And I am here. with you, for you, beside you- as you become too.
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